Being a teenager is suppose to be one of the happiest and carefree times in our life, but it is also probably one of the hardest. Teens are in that "in-between" age. They are too old for childish behavior but not old enough to be considered or treated like an adult by most people.
We still punish them the same way we did when they were younger, but we demand that they think and act like responsible adults. Do you think that, maybe, we are giving our teens conflicting messages.
To top it off, teens have to deal with constant peer pressure every day, with no end in sight. This peer pressure not only comes from their friends and school mates, but from the media, local and government officials as well. Adults make no distinction between the teens that are constantly in trouble and those who are not. Adults don't like generalizations, why should they?
Is it any wonder that the number of suicides among teens is so high? Higher than most any other group. Is it conceivable that the increase in kids, who are little more than babies, are killing each other and that school shootings are the teens attempt at assisted suicide? Do you really believe they thought they could walk away from something like that alive?
Are our kids trying to tell us that they are tired of fighting an uphill battle? That no one appears to care enough to listen when they cry out for help?


